Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

I have a question for you today my friend.

This is an interesting one and a lot of people might challenge you on this.

I've been challenged on this so many times. It's interesting, it doesn't really happen so much anymore.

I'm guessing my energy is different and I'm very clean and clear now about who I am and what I want. But my question is this, are you living a needs-based life or a once-based life? They can almost seem the same at a glance, right? What we need and what we

want. But they are very different. There's a very different energy, there's a very different

sense of power.

There is a there is a ambition and a desire and a joy attached to one

and there can be a lot of desperation. desire and a joy attached to one,

and there can be a lot of desperation

attached to the other.

So, when you think about what it is that you're going for,

whatever it may be, right, maybe it's more money, maybe it's a new relationship,

maybe it's a cool new opportunity, whatever it is you are expanding into right now? Is it because you need it?

Or is it because you want it?

I would like to tell you something profound,

but I almost wish I knew sooner.

You don't have to justify what you want to anyone. To anyone. It's enough to say because I want it. Oh but why why? Because I want it.

That's enough. The same with saying too by the way because I don't want it.

But when we're going after something with a neediness, with this needing energy,

it can feel like a desperation energy. It's very easy to sense in other people, right? Someone who's like really desperate to sell you something. Oh, it really turns me off, right? I physically recoil. I lean back when I can feel that energy.

Or even if you're in the dating world and someone feels needy, it's very unattractive.

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