How do you know if you're worrying too much? How can you mend a broken heart? Does peaking at school

ruin you for life? I'm Susie Ruffle, a stand-up comedian, and someone who has always experienced

anxiety. And I've written a book. Am I having fun now? Considering some of life's big questions,

featuring bonus insights from the likes of Charlene Douglas, Sarah Pascoe, Elizabeth Day and Dolly Auditon.

Am I Having Fun Now? Is out now in with me, Susie Ruffle.

And me, Tom Allen, hi.

Hi, how are you?

I'm good, thank you. I'm feeling a little bit autumnal at the moment, you know, for better or worse, like a little bit, a bit like, oh, do you know that sort of like, oh, kicking some leaves, swishing around, you know, a bit sort of, oh, well. I don't really, no, I don't know what you mean, no, I need, than swishing leaves and... I mean, I'm describing it in sounds. I'm just a little bit meh, is what people would say now, isn't it? Okay, yeah. Oh, I'm sorry to hear you're feeling mad. No, not terrible, just sort of a bit like... Not been sleeping very well. Anyway, sorry, not to bring a negative vibe to the beginning. Oh, Tom, please. This is the place for negative vibes. This is the place for negative...

Negative vibes. not been sleeping very well. Anyway, sorry, not to bring a negative vibe to the beginning. Oh, Tom, please.

This is the place for negative vibes.

This is the place for negative vibes only.

I want that on a notepad.

Yes.

First of all, I think it's interesting that you think of autumnal like that,

because I think autumnal is very positive time.

Oh, okay, good. But I think that's because I think autumnal is very positive time. Oh, okay, good.

But I think that's because I like the fashion choices I have.

Sure.

When it gets slightly colder.

I understand.

Sure.

Yeah, Alf calls it roast season, which I think is quite...

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