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It's so funny because when you look at the guys, that's never a topic of conversation. Yeah.

What you look like. Did you watch the football last night? It's never about, I'll watch your skincare routine. Whereas women walk into a room and because we've been taught to be pitted against each other. Yeah. Not always, but sometimes there's, oh my God, you know, I can't. It's a bit of a barrier. Yeah, yeah. And it shouldn't be there. We should be trying to change that stereotype, believing that there is space for everybody.

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Me, Tom Allen, and wow, I can't believe it we're in the middle of the summer holiday,

Sus. I know. I know. What are you doing for the summer holiday? Have you been to any play schemes?

I've been at PGL. No, I haven't. Do you remember thatL? Or maybe that was just in this local area. I think it stood for parents get lost. And I remember going to it once and actually really hated it. Oh, right. Yeah. And cried a lot because the friend, I was going, she was a girl, she went to another school and she had lots of friends there from her school and she didn't talk to me and it's very sad that is heartbreaking I didn't like the pack lunch sorry such a sad why do I always lean into like the sad stories what who would have made your pat lunch your mom no it was given to which I didn't like. Oh, no, no, no, no. I didn't like that.

Seeding that control. And also, I'm quite funny about who makes my sandwiches. Yeah, I know what you mean. I certainly as a child. Oh, God, yeah. I would know how, you know, Billy Bearmeat, a bit of Brantston pickle. Delicious. Delicious. Delicious. I was a big plan of

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I don't know if you remember that product.

Oh, what was that? The Margarine, I think. No longer available. Nice. Did you ever have paste? I am aware of it. I never had it because I didn't like anything that looks... Weird. That was... That look weird, yeah you were a fan pink gel pink gritty gel was

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