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Everything Belongs: Living the Teachings of Richard Rohr Forward

Necessary Suffering With Mirabai Starr

Everything Belongs: Living the Teachings of Richard Rohr Forward

Center for Action and Contemplation

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.8723 Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2024

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

What if the goal of the spiritual journey is to understand suffering?  In this episode, we're joined by Mirabai Starr as we continue our chapter-by-chapter exploration of Falling Upward with Chapter 6: "Necessary Suffering." This episode explores how loss, suffering, and grief can be a transformative spiritual path, leading to deeper connection with the divine and a more authentic self, by urging us to confront pain and surrender to a greater reality. Before we dive in to the interview with Mirabai, CAC staff catch up with Richard at his hermitage to hear his reflections on the sixth chapter a decade after he originally wrote it. Mirabai Starr is an award-winning author of creative non-fiction and contemporary translations of sacred literature. She taught Philosophy and World Religions at the University of New Mexico-Taos for 20 years and now teaches and speaks internationally on contemplative practice and inter-spiritual dialog. A certified bereavement counselor, Mirabai helps mourners harness the transformational power of loss. Her latest book, WILD MERCY: Living the Fierce & Tender Wisdom of the Women Mystics, was named one of the “Best Books of 2019”. She lives with her extended family in the mountains of northern New Mexico. Resources: A PDF of the transcript for this episode is available here. Grab a copy of the newly revised version of Falling Upward, with a new foreword by Brené Brown here. To learn more about Mirabai Starr and Wild Heart, visit her website here. Connect with us: Have a question or thought about this season that you'd like to share with us? Email us: podcasts@cac.org Send us a voicemail here: http://www.cac.org/voicemail

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0:00.0

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0:04.0

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0:07.6

The term necessary suffering sounds like a cruel joke or a way to excuse the subjugation of other beings.

0:15.5

Or perhaps the motto of dental offices everywhere.

0:19.9

Approaching necessary suffering from another angle, we recognize

0:23.1

that simply by being human and engaging with reality, we are bound to suffer. As agents of love,

0:31.3

healing, and compassion, the suffering we meet becomes a necessary dance partner. Whether we acknowledge it, bear it, or crumble

0:39.7

under it, life meets us with suffering. Father Richard minces no words on suffering. He is said that

0:48.5

we suffer any time we are not in control. Suffering can shut us down or soften our hearts, and if tended to, it can put us

0:57.5

in solidarity with the suffering of the world. Necessary suffering can be both the crucible and the

1:04.2

gate to the unified field. In today's conversation, it is with that spirit that we sit in Richard's Hermitage and crack open the conversation on Chapter 6, Necessary Suffering.

1:17.9

We delve right into suffering, circling around both legitimate and illegitimate suffering, being in solidarity with suffering, and how embodied practice is essential to integrating

1:29.9

the necessary suffering of our lives.

1:35.0

From the Center for Action and Contemplation, I'm Mike Petro.

1:42.1

I'm Paul Swanson.

1:43.3

And this is Everything Belongs.

1:50.7

Richard, we're so excited to be here with you sitting outside in the breeze on your porch,

1:56.3

taken in the beautiful New Mexico fall afternoon. And today we're going to be talking about necessary suffering.

2:04.2

One of my favorite things that Carl Jung ever said,

2:08.4

and it's always fascinated me,

2:10.6

is he says that neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering.

2:17.1

I got so excited when I read this chapter because you open it by saying,

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