Narcissists See You as a Liability or an Asset and Nothing More
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 805 Ratings
🗓️ 28 April 2025
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
If you love a narcissist and you're here listening to this podcast, chances are you are learning to understand that you are not viewed healthily and that perhaps the person you are dealing with perceives you through a skewed lens. Maybe you're realizing that it's not you and there is nothing you can do to please a narcissist, although God knows you've tried. Sadly, a narcissists mind works in black and white. You are either for them or against them, which is why having any type of conflict or disagreement is so earth-shattering to them and why they can become so mean, angry and vile with a flip of a switch.
To a narcissist, you are in their life because you represent an asset of some sort, most often as narcissistic supply. However, when a narcissist begins to sense that you can see through them, and especially if you stand your ground, their minds begin to view you as a liability. If a narcissist is unable to dominate you through coercive control tactics, you will be discarded sooner than later, because to them, you have now become a liability and offer them no value.
It's sad but also true and incredibly clarifying ONCE you see the dynamics for what they are.
Are you ready to develop that stainless steel spine we all need in order to develop self love and start manifesting the lives we deserve and desire, free of toxic narcissistic and codependent dynamics?
If so, start your transformation journey with Lisa here;
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Breakdown to Breakthrough, the podcast that empowers you to transform your life by |
| 0:05.0 | awakening to your true authentic self. I'm Lisa A. Romano, your host, as an award-winning author |
| 0:10.6 | and certified life coach, I've dedicated my life to helping others understand the incredible |
| 0:16.1 | power of an organized mind. I believe that true empowerment begins with awakening to our false self. |
| 0:23.2 | I created the Conscious Healing Academy, a three-part coaching and brain retraining program |
| 0:28.1 | designed to help individuals triumph over trauma and turn the breakdowns into powerful |
| 0:33.7 | breakthroughs. |
| 0:34.6 | My mission is to support you on your journey toward mental and emotional |
| 0:38.6 | regeneration through conscious and deliberate awakening. In this podcast, I'll share insights, |
| 0:44.5 | tools, and transformative stories that illuminate the path to healing and self-discovery. |
| 0:50.4 | So today, we're going to be discussing how to talk to a narcissist in a pinch. Okay, so a couple of things |
| 0:56.4 | that we need to figure out first is that narcissists have serious behavioral issues. They have |
| 1:03.8 | serious cognitive issues. They have serious consciousness issues. They do not see people as 3D autonomous human beings that are worthy of respect. |
| 1:14.3 | They sort of rank people in terms of their assets to them or whether or not someone could be an |
| 1:20.0 | asset or a liability. So a narcissist is always trying to figure out and really, like, figure out, |
| 1:27.1 | like seriously in the moment like is this person |
| 1:29.3 | going to be advantageous to my life or is this person going to hinder my life in some way? |
| 1:36.5 | And that's really sad because they are so missing the mark on what a true relationship is. |
| 1:42.0 | So when I think about somebody who is highly narcissistic, we want to |
| 1:45.4 | remember that this is someone who is not highly self-aware. This is someone who, if you're not |
| 1:51.3 | self-aware, you can't be self-accountable. If you're not self-aware, you can't walk and live in |
| 1:56.7 | integrity. If you're not self-aware, then you can't operate from a place of vulnerability and |
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