Narcissistic Emails #2
Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
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🗓️ 6 September 2021
⏱️ 94 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, deserving listeners. The other day I put out a call on the Facebook fan page and on the discord channel |
| 0:06.8 | asking people to submit their questions about narcissism. And I thought I would |
| 0:10.8 | answer those questions here. First person wrote in saying, |
| 0:14.9 | what are things we should avoid doing when dealing with narcissists? What are things we should |
| 0:20.8 | avoid doing when dealing with narcissists? End of question. Well, the first thing I'll say is |
| 0:26.3 | what do you mean by narcissists? Because the internet means a lot of different things by that. |
| 0:31.6 | Sometimes they're referring to narcissistic personized shorter, which I will tell you that the vast |
| 0:36.8 | majority of lay people do not understand what that means. And most many clinicians in my anecdotal |
| 0:42.8 | experience also don't understand what narcissistic personized shorter is. So are we talking about |
| 0:48.5 | oftentimes on the internet what I think people are talking about are psychopaths or any social |
| 0:52.0 | personized shorter? Because a part of being a psychopath is to be narcissistic. And I wonder |
| 0:59.3 | sometimes if people are talking about psychopaths, meaning that these individuals don't have |
| 1:05.4 | compassion or care for other people. They're very callous. They're con artists. They use other |
| 1:11.9 | people, which is a very different personality than a quote unquote someone who suffers from |
| 1:18.0 | narcissistic personized or or we just talking about someone is really self centered in your opinion. |
| 1:22.8 | But anyway, if you know how what are some things you should do when quote unquote dealing with a |
| 1:29.6 | narcissist? Well, the first thing I would say is try to understand their trauma. This is what I do |
| 1:35.6 | because it one helps me to have compassion for them, which I consider to be a central virtue. |
| 1:44.3 | But the other is that it explains a lot of their behavior. If I'm feeling put down, if I'm |
| 1:49.2 | feeling discounted, if I'm feeling devalued, and I have a satisfactory conceptualization of their |
| 1:57.6 | narcissistic injury as a child and their compensation for it as an adult, then I can interpret what's |
| 2:04.8 | happening with much less stress. I can say, well, I feel devalued by this person not because I |
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