My wife cheated. Then hired a private investigator to track me down after I ghosted her.

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Is my ghosted ex-wife possibly tracking me down? I posted a few months back but it got removed

about ghosting my ex-wife when I found out she was cheating on me with a coworker which I

witnessed firsthand by following her after confronting her several times and getting nowhere

I mentally threw in the towel. My course of action was to leave her and ghost the living hell out of

her. To be clear we still had separate accounts and no shared assets so I was able to do this

cleanly and our leads had expired anyway. While she was at a town for work I packed up my stuff

and completely moved out of the apartment we shared. I moved out of the city and onto a parcel of

land in a trailer that I bought from my friend. Once she came back from her trip all that was left

was a note and my wedding band. Since that time my living situation has been great and I lived

pretty simply. Since I am a remote worker in a technical field I can work from anywhere and

jump on a plane when I needed elsewhere. As long as I have good internet service which fortunately

I do. My intention was to sort myself out and had just contacted a lawyer but she beat me to it

and we had an uncontested divorce. Here is the problem. I bumped into a mutual friend a while back

and she mentioned that my ex-wife was outed at work about the affair and things did not go so well

for her or for the guy she was cheating on me with. I stopped her from telling me anything more

because that woman has done enough to me and I really didn't need to hear it. She also said that

my ex is still wanting to contact me and wants to come back together beg for my forgiveness etc.

I didn't really believe her but she was adamant about it. I told her not to say anything about

seeing me and she agreed. I have no desire to do anything about talking to her again let alone

see her but three days ago I saw my ex on a coffee shop sitting by herself in a little town near

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