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sandra and florida sandra writes my spouse's spending is crippling our finances and our marriage each

month we have only about five to six hundred left after monthly bills and minimum debt payments

and we only have a1,000 saved.

I've tried to speak lovingly to my husband and let him know how much the overspending

scares me and affects my mental health. I've also had moments of frustration and have blamed him

for financial struggles, which I realize is not a healthy approach. Seems all my efforts and

approaches are futile.

I understand the Ramsey principles behind joint accounts and have lived this way for years,

but at what point in my marriage do I say enough and separate myself financially?

Right before divorce.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And I think we're here.

I think we're close.

This is way bigger, Dave, than, I'm I'm glad she, I'm glad she had the courage to write is crippling our finances and our marriage because this type of behavior tells me there's other issues of that marriage. It's not just money.

Yeah, this guy is, um, kind of got the axis of the world stopped through the top of his head.

Everything spins around him.

He's the most important thing that ever lived.

I'm telling you.

His mama told him that.

Yep.

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