My Sister's Boo'd Up and I'm Grieving Alone #HMAY Ep. 249
How Married Are You?
Glen & Yvette Henry
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 1 July 2025
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
What do you do when the glue of your family is gone—and everything starts to come undone? 🕊💔
In this episode, we hear from a listener grieving the loss of her mother… while also navigating a painful shift in her relationship with her sister.
They’ve survived so much together—abusive relationships, single motherhood, and even the loss of their fiancés just weeks apart. But now, in the wake of their mother’s death, grief is exposing the cracks: an imbalance in caregiving, a new boyfriend causing tension, and a fear that their bond may not survive this chapter.
Yvette and Glen hold space—and offer clarity.
We talk:
- What is codependency—and does it apply here?
- When you’re the “strong one” and it’s quietly breaking you
- The hard (but freeing) truth about defining relationships with family
- How grief can also be an identity reckoninAnd why it's okay to find “family” outside your family
If you’ve ever lost someone and felt like you were losing more than one person in the process—this one’s for you.
Episode 249 is live. Tap in, breathe deep, and tell us:What boundaries have helped you stay grounded during a season of loss? 👇🏾
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| 0:00.0 | Scheduling sex. |
| 0:01.3 | Oh, sure. |
| 0:03.4 | We've done that. |
| 0:05.1 | We're back on that. |
| 0:07.3 | We fell off, y'all. |
| 0:08.9 | We fell off, and now we're back. |
| 0:10.7 | Yeah. |
| 0:11.7 | How's that been for you? |
| 0:13.0 | Oh, my gosh. |
| 0:14.5 | I was not prepared for this line of questioning. |
| 0:17.0 | Okay. questioning. |
| 0:30.7 | Hello, my name is Mrs. Melan. |
| 0:31.5 | And I'm Belief Mel. |
| 0:35.4 | I'm here with episode 249 of How Married Are You? |
| 0:42.7 | Okay, my name Belmont is a bit sorry sorry what the heck and why is my thing so loud that's the problem that's the problem what's the problem what's the problem look |
| 0:49.1 | my name believes is that we may be 14 years live in California and we got four days. |
| 0:54.3 | That's not even this song. |
| 0:55.5 | That's the point. |
| 0:56.8 | What is happening? |
| 0:58.0 | I was trying to fix the situation. |
| 1:01.0 | There's no card in here either. |
| 1:03.6 | There's a card in here. |
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