I agree to get pregnant and be a surrogate from my sister and her husband by sleeping with him,

but now I am regretting it. I'm a 25 year old female and her husband is in his late 30s.

For most of my life, my sister Alice has been wanting kids but she has been unable to carry a

baby full term in part due to endometriosis. She was in a lot of pain and had to have a

hysterectomy. Alice and her husband Ben have fostered five children and have adopted two

children with autism and they are great parents. They have a good home environment and are

financially very well off but recently Ben and after a while Alice was Ben by the urge to have a

kid biologically related to them because they wanted a chance to do things right and provide

the best start in life. Those are their views not mine. So they asked me to be their traditional

surrogate and said that they would cover all costs, legal, medical, etc associated with it.

They would be also paying off my student debt, renting a two bedroom apartment for three plus

years and giving me a substantial amount of cash. I said sure it'll be nine months of my life

in exchange for being set up for quite some time and my immediate family thinks it's a great idea.

However, when I said sure I was expecting something along the lines of an IUI where we go to the

doctor to get Ben's sperm prepared me getting shots basically. Basically the whole artificial

examination package but Alice and Ben have asked me to well get pregnant the traditional way.

Their rationale is that number one it's the cheapest way. Number two they don't want to go to

the hospital given the virus and the pandemic and number three they think babies conceive naturally

are healthier slash the pregnancy would be safer without the chemicals but I just can't get over

the ic factor and even if this was going to take place at home I think a syringe would work fine.

Am I going loony for thinking of going back on my word? Is there request reasonable? My immediate

family doesn't see anything wrong with it and has been congratulating my sister on her impending

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