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Am I the Jerk?

My Dad started DATING my BEST FRIEND - r/Relationship_Advice

Am I the Jerk?

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Society & Culture, Relationships

4.83.2K Ratings

🗓️ 8 February 2022

⏱️ 18 minutes

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0:00.0

My dad is dating my sister's close friend.

0:04.0

I'm a 19 year old male and I have a twin sister who's 19 years old as well.

0:08.9

Our dad is 38 years old.

0:11.2

I found out early in the month that my dad, who's been separated from my mom since the end of summer,

0:16.8

has been dating my sister's friend, Bre, who's 20 years old.

0:22.4

It was weird to find out that they were dating, but I told them they had to tell my sister or I would.

0:28.0

And I was really hoping they'd hold up their side of the deal because I have no idea how to tell my sister about this,

0:33.9

but they didn't. Every time they said they were going to, they didn't, for whatever reason.

0:39.2

So now I have to tell my sister. I can't keep a secret from her longer than this,

0:43.7

but now I have reasons to believe they're expecting, but I'm not 100% sure.

0:48.2

Should I mention this to my sister as well or keep it out?

0:51.9

It's something that obviously time will reveal anyway, so I don't know if it's worth it to upset her more

0:57.5

with something I don't know is true. So should I tell my sister, our dad is dating her friend.

1:03.3

Fast forwarding into the future, there's actually an update which says, I just did it.

1:08.0

I told my sister, she was upset. She started crying.

1:12.4

I think at first she was most upset because her friend lied to her a lot to keep this relationship

1:17.0

a secret, daily lying. So she was really upset about that.

1:20.5

Then the weirdness of it all set in and she got really, really upset.

1:24.8

She asked me if we should tell our mom and I really don't know.

1:28.3

I don't know what the right move is here, but I guess I'm glad my sister knows now,

1:32.3

so we can figure it out together. My sister hasn't spoken to either one of them.

1:36.4

My dad or her friend, she just blocked both their numbers and I did the same.

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