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Seeing Other People

"My Nonconsensual Sexual Experience"

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2021

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

TW: the following content may be sensitive for those who have experienced any form of sexual assault.

On today’s episode, I’m joined by a woman who had a nonconsensual sexual experience when she was a college student. We hear about the events leading up to this, what actually happened in the moment, and how it’s impacted her longterm. We discuss guilt, trust, consent, communication, safe dating and more.

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0:00.0

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:05.5

Hey guys, it's Alana, and you're listening to seeing other people unfiltered.

0:14.6

Each Thursday on Unfiltered, I'll be bringing on a different anonymous guests to open up about

0:19.0

their real life dating experiences. We'll discuss what they went through or are going through, how they navigated it, what they've learned, and what advice they have to anyone else going through something similar. Unfiltered is your reminder that no matter what you're going through, you're not alone. If you have a topic that you'd like to discuss on Unfiltered, please email your story to seeing other people podcast at gmail.com to be considered for an episode. Real people, real stories, real life.

0:43.0

This is seeing other people unfiltered. Today's episode may be triggering to anyone who has

0:48.3

experienced any form of sexual assault. On today's episode, I'm joined by a woman who had a non-consensual sexual experience when

0:55.6

she was a college student. We hear about the events leading up to this, what actually happened

1:00.3

in the moment, and how it's impacted her long term. We discuss guilt, trust, consent,

1:06.5

communication, safe dating, and more. I also share a similar experience that I went through.

1:12.0

To anyone listening who's been through something like this, know that you're not alone.

1:16.6

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seeing other people at checkout for 10% off and free shipping. All right, we are in the episode.

1:43.1

Thank you so much for being here. I am really excited

1:47.8

for a conversation. And I would love if you could start by just introducing yourself and what you're

1:52.3

here to talk about. All right. Hi. I am anonymous. And I'm here to talk about a, I guess, dating after a non-consensual sexual experience.

2:06.6

That's the most comfortable, like, way of wording it for me. I know other people have

2:12.1

different words for it, but that's something that I feel good about. So, yeah.

2:16.9

Yeah. Well, I, as soon as you emailed me, I mean, I even appreciated the way that you something that I feel good about. So yeah. Yeah, well, I, as soon as you emailed me,

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