My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?
Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
4.9 • 4K Ratings
🗓️ 27 May 2021
⏱️ 78 minutes
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Summary
It's Caller Day! Our caller, Maya, may be in a happy, healthy relationship, but she's at a crossroads. If you've ever been in a longterm relationship and felt marriage should be a given, you just may relate to Maya's (all too common) situation. Just how long is *too* long to wait for a partner's certainty? This just might be our most heated caller conversation to date.
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| 0:00.0 | You're a classic herbivore, but there is going to come a point where you have to become a carnivore like this guy. |
| 0:07.8 | I hate to say it. But it's not now. |
| 0:10.0 | Dear Shandhi. |
| 0:15.6 | Welcome back to Dear Shandhi listeners. Andi. |
| 0:20.1 | Yes. |
| 0:21.0 | What day is it? |
| 0:22.3 | It's the day of the caller. |
| 0:24.4 | The day of the caller. |
| 0:26.5 | We are joined today by Maya. Maya, thank you so much for joining us. |
| 0:31.2 | Hello. |
| 0:31.8 | Thanks for having me. |
| 0:33.1 | Would you mind giving us your age and your city or region and your story please? |
| 0:39.2 | Yes, I'm 28 and I'm in the Pacific Northwest. |
| 0:43.0 | And I will share my initial story and then I do have some updates to talk about since my initial |
| 0:50.0 | writing in. |
| 0:51.0 | Ooh. |
| 0:52.0 | Okay. |
| 0:52.4 | And I know that you love updates, so we do love updates. |
| 0:55.2 | Do they thicken or thin the plot? |
| 0:58.1 | I think they thicken a little bit. |
| 1:00.8 | Okay. |
| 1:02.9 | Hey, so yeah, I have been with my partner for five years. |
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