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Dear Shandy

My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.94K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2021

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

It's Caller Day! Our caller, Maya, may be in a happy, healthy relationship, but she's at a crossroads. If you've ever been in a longterm relationship and felt marriage should be a given, you just may relate to Maya's (all too common) situation. Just how long is *too* long to wait for a partner's certainty? This just might be our most heated caller conversation to date.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

You're a classic herbivore, but there is going to come a point where you have to become a carnivore like this guy.

0:07.8

I hate to say it. But it's not now.

0:10.0

Dear Shandhi.

0:15.6

Welcome back to Dear Shandhi listeners. Andi.

0:20.1

Yes.

0:21.0

What day is it?

0:22.3

It's the day of the caller.

0:24.4

The day of the caller.

0:26.5

We are joined today by Maya. Maya, thank you so much for joining us.

0:31.2

Hello.

0:31.8

Thanks for having me.

0:33.1

Would you mind giving us your age and your city or region and your story please?

0:39.2

Yes, I'm 28 and I'm in the Pacific Northwest.

0:43.0

And I will share my initial story and then I do have some updates to talk about since my initial

0:50.0

writing in.

0:51.0

Ooh.

0:52.0

Okay.

0:52.4

And I know that you love updates, so we do love updates.

0:55.2

Do they thicken or thin the plot?

0:58.1

I think they thicken a little bit.

1:00.8

Okay.

1:02.9

Hey, so yeah, I have been with my partner for five years.

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