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see supply. Hi, this is Janet Landsfrey. Welcome to Unruffled. Well, today I'm going to do something

totally different. I'm responding to a question I get every once in a while, and I don't think I've

ever responded to this kind of question on my podcast

or anywhere before. So this is a new one. A parent wrote to me, I'm so inspired by your

teachings. Thank you. I would love to hear more from you about your relationships with your

adult children. You often allude to how satisfying it is to have meaningful relationships with your adult children,

but I'm so curious as to what that looks and feels like and how it works.

What boundaries do you and your children have now?

How do you maintain closeness?

How have you watched and supported and counseled them in their life's struggles as adults? I know this is a

broad and personal question and out of the realm of the usual advice for littles you offer,

but just want you to know that this is what I find myself wondering about as a 42-year-old

adult daughter and a mother of a three and five year old. I appreciate your consideration

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