I'm home along with the kids all day long and he's at work,

and then he comes in and then something tiny goes on and he's like, okay, it just goes out to the wind.

How do I get to the thing beneath the thing?

And that is, I've got an angry husband who is taking it out on a five-year-old.

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to dallas texas and talk to page what What's up, Paige? Hi, Dr. John. How are you?

I'm okay. Okay, okay. What's going on? So how do I tell my husband that I don't want to raise our kids the same way he was raised?

Husband, I don't want to raise our kids the same way he raised.

I'm sure that, that, like, that probably hasn't worked.

Tell me what's going on.

So we have three kids ranging from five to almost nine months.

And I was raised with the new year.

I was kind of reflecting on how I wanted to parent and what I wanted to change and everything.

And I was raised in a split household.

Both of them were abusive in their own ways.

And my husband was raised in a single household, but there was some things that I see as abusive,

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