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So I am married, possibly separated for my spouse. I stay at home, and he is a breadwinner. I've raised her children.

And I am not allowed to see any of our financial

information, bank accounts, credit cards, passwords, nothing like that. Yikes. What do you mean you're

not allowed? I know. He just says that's how I was raised. I make the money, and he does have a lot of, he does very well.

I don't care if he makes a dollar or a million. It has no bearing on your involvement in knowing what's going on financially in the family.

I know. And he just says, I won't, he owns commercial real estate.

And so he tells me, it's too much for you to handle being your length.

So we call that financial infidelity.

That's what I've told him.

And he just shakes his head at me.

My therapist has said the same thing.

And he just says, that's how I am.

That's how my parents were.

And I'm not changing all right then here's the thing most people don't get that clear of a response

now you have a choice to make and i wish it wasn't this complicated i mean i wish it wasn't this

simple but it truly is um he's told you he's not changing yeah and by the way with if you file for divorce and they do a

forensic um investigation into his all of his slash yalls because you're from texas yalls money um it's all

going to be put on the table so he can be a grown-up adult and be an actual married man

who loves and honors his wife and his kids and like share the family finances together

or he can put it all on the table with the help of an attorney and a forensic accountant that he's

going to pay for so this is what has happened is we this is very different from what I've being told is we did come up with a post

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