Brought to you by Xander Insurance, identity theft protection isn't a luxury in today's world.

It's a necessity. Get yours at Xander.com.

I've been with my boyfriend. I've been with a man for four years now. He's 17 years older than I am,

and it's been quite emotionally abusive, and I'm trying to leave.

But I have $23,000 in debt.

I only really count $6,000 of debt because $17 of it is car, which I feel like

I were going to tell me to get rid of it, but I don't want to.

I'm just trying to figure out how to navigate, like, paying off this $6,000 because it's affecting me of getting, it's affecting me from getting a place of my own right now.

And I have a bonus from work coming up, and I'm just like, I don't know how to navigate.

How old are you?

I'm 27.

And how much money do you make, Connie?

I make $2,400 a month.

Doing what?

I work for a very, very large health insurance company as a customer advocate.

And so you work 40 hours?

Yes.

Do you have any kind of education or training? No.

Okay, well, you're a high school graduate?

Yes.

No college?

No.

...