My Husband is Addicted to Porn, But I Have the Problem

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🗓️ 18 August 2022

⏱️ 13 minutes

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My Husband is Addicted to Porn, But I Have the Problem - Why is Valerie driven to obsessively snoop on her husband's devices looking for porn when finding it makes her so unhappy? - Dr. Laura: "You've designed a way to protect yourself and gain leverage in this relationship." - Do you snoop on your spouse? Email me your thoughts at: [email protected] | Become a Dr. Laura Family Member: https://www.drlaura.com/ See https://www.drlaura.com/privacy-policy for privacy information.

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1:20.0	Valerie, welcome to the program. Hi. How are you? Good. What's happening?
1:26.2	Thank you so much. Nice speaking with you. I've been a listener for maybe
1:33.8	nine or ten years on and off, especially when I got my new car. Nice to speak with you in person.
1:39.7	Thank you. What's happening? So what's happening is this. I think that I am the one who has
1:46.8	the problem because I am hyper focused on the amount of porn my husband consumes. I know you've
1:58.1	heard this before. Wait a minute. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Before you start blaming yourself,
2:04.5	how long have you been married? This is a second marriage for both of us. So I've been married
2:13.3	almost six years. I've been waiting. Do you know what happened to his marriage? Yes.
2:20.9	What happened? He had been married for a long time. There was an infidelity on the wife's part
2:29.0	and that was pretty much the end of it. Did he as he talked about using porn in that marriage?
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