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Valerie, welcome to the program. Hi. How are you? Good. What's happening?

Thank you so much. Nice speaking with you. I've been a listener for maybe

nine or ten years on and off, especially when I got my new car. Nice to speak with you in person.

Thank you. What's happening? So what's happening is this. I think that I am the one who has

the problem because I am hyper focused on the amount of porn my husband consumes. I know you've

heard this before. Wait a minute. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Before you start blaming yourself,

how long have you been married? This is a second marriage for both of us. So I've been married

almost six years. I've been waiting. Do you know what happened to his marriage? Yes.

What happened? He had been married for a long time. There was an infidelity on the wife's part

and that was pretty much the end of it. Did he as he talked about using porn in that marriage?

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