This is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

Let's go to Ella in Los Angeles, California.

What's up, Ella?

Hi there.

How we doing?

Um, not too good to be 100% honest.

Oh, thank you so much for being honest.

What's up?

So my husband and I have been married for four years, and he has a son from a previous

marriage, and it's a really bad, it was a bad divorce.

My steps in almost 10, and they're still in a custody battle and I found out that my husband

well we lived out of state and we moved three years ago to be closer to his son and that was a horrible

decision because we don't have any family but my husband has racked up about 200,000 dollars in debt

to his attorney and he's on a payment plan of $12,000 a month. Oh.

All a surprise. I had no idea. I knew something was up, so I went into his email,

which I shouldn't have done, and I saw the bill, and I, like, I felt like I was going to be

sick. And I told him this morning I wanted a divorce.

I mean, we've just been fighting all the time over this for the past three years.

Well, he's been fighting for custody.

And he told me that he's not going to stop until he gets full custody.

And I had no idea he was filing for full custody.

And I don't want full custody of his son because I'm a stay-at-home mom and I would have to be the one to

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