My Husband Gets No Pleasure From My Pleasure #724

Sexy Marriage Radio

Dr Corey and Pam Allan

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 April 2025

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

In this call-in episode, Anne discusses her experiences with her husband's lack of interest in her pleasure, she's guessing it is stemming from his background with pornography. Our conversation explores the dynamics of intimacy, expectations, and communication in their marriage, highlighting the challenges and growth they face together. We emphasize the importance of mutual pleasure, understanding each other's needs, and the steps in a journey towards a more fulfilling sexual relationship. Takeaways A woman's pleasure can sometimes be overlooked by men due to various factors. Pornography can create unrealistic expectations and impact intimacy negatively. Communication about sexual needs and desires is crucial in a marriage. Expectations can create pressure that affects sexual dynamics. Understanding each other's backgrounds can help navigate intimacy issues. Boldness in expressing desires can be intimidating for partners. Mutual pleasure is essential for a satisfying sexual relationship. Recognizing the difference between boldness and courage is important in communication. Sexual satisfaction involves both partners feeling connected during and after intimacy. Growth in a relationship often requires confronting uncomfortable truths. Enjoy the show! Sponsors … Alloy: Get your Alloy prescription today. Visit https://myalloy.com/PASSION today for $20 off your first order! #agegracefully Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy

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0:00.0	Welcome back to another episode of sexy marriage radio alongside my wife, Pam.
0:05.9	Always good to be here.
0:06.8	Each and every week, having honest conversations.
0:10.2	And this week we're continuing a thread that we've had of the last several weeks
0:15.6	have been largely leaning more towards the higher desire wife.
0:19.3	We're continuing that thread with a call-in segment with a woman named Anne from our area, from the DFW Metroplex.
0:27.7	And she's calling in to talk through.
0:32.2	How do I help, help me understand why my husband would get no pleasure from my pleasure.
0:39.8	It's just baffling to her because that's what she's experiencing.
0:45.8	Sure.
0:46.6	And so she's going to dive into what makes that so to keep it in context because everything to me makes it you have to make it make sense in the
0:54.8	context of the questions absolutely absolutely yeah and we'd hope that our spouse
1:01.3	enjoys their own pleasure but also wants us to have that as well it's impactful when we don't
1:07.8	and when we do so let's look at all sides of this equation.
1:11.9	So if you want to jump into a conversation with us, we would love to have you join us.
1:17.3	You can let us know what's going on or what thoughts you've got. Feedback at sexymarriage
1:22.2	radio.com or 214-702-9-65. And with that, everybody gets the full episode today because this becomes a pretty involved conversation.
1:32.3	And we're just going to keep it rolling all the way through.
1:34.4	That's good.
1:35.3	And so all that's coming up right after this.
1:38.3	This episode of Sexy Marriage Radio is sponsored by Alloy Women's Health.
1:42.8	Let's be real.
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