My Girlfriend was IMPREGNATED and I BROKE UP with her cuz she wants to KEEP the Baby
Am I the Jerk?
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🗓️ 11 May 2022
⏱️ 18 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | My girlfriend was attacked and impregnated, but I broke up with her because she wanted to |
| 0:05.7 | keep the baby. Subscribe to AmiTheJerk on YouTube and hit the bell to turn on notifications. |
| 0:11.6 | This is a really, really terrible situation. Two months ago, my girlfriend was attacked in a park, |
| 0:18.5 | more than attacked, actually. The unspeakable happened to her. She didn't want to report it, |
| 0:23.9 | and she went into a full breakdown. She wouldn't speak to the police, |
| 0:27.5 | she wouldn't go to the hospital, I couldn't force her so I just stayed with her. |
| 0:30.9 | She was obviously in a very low state since, and I've been with her. By her side, |
| 0:36.0 | listening to her, helping her, we went to therapy and she knows that I'm there for her. |
| 0:40.5 | She has a history of depression and I've been really worried. Last week, we found out that she was |
| 0:45.6 | pregnant. I was abroad for two months before the attack on work and came back early to care for |
| 0:52.9 | her, so the baby definitely is not mine. She is 100% sure it's the attackers. |
| 0:59.4 | So we had a discussion. She is a devout Catholic and we initially decided on a termination, |
| 1:05.4 | but after speaking to her mother, she has decided to keep the baby, saying that it isn't the babies |
| 1:11.5 | fault. I flat out told her that I would not help raise the baby of a guy who attacked her like |
| 1:18.6 | this. She cried and she begged me not to leave. I told her she is the one making the choice. |
| 1:23.6 | Either she keeps the baby and I leave or she terminates the baby and I stay. I would not let this go. |
| 1:30.7 | She didn't want either of those things to happen, so I told her we were done. I feel horrible. |
| 1:36.1 | Was I the jerk? So if we fast forward into the future, there is an update. I'll post update first |
| 1:42.2 | since there have been some changes since last time. Then I'll respond to general points made from |
| 1:47.2 | the last thread and a ton of the messages I received. Yesterday I received a call from my girlfriend. |
| 1:52.1 | She was crying and she begged me to listen to her. I told her that I still care for her and that |
| 1:57.6 | I'll obviously listen to what she has to say. She told me that a few days after I told her we were |
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