My girlfriend was attacked and impregnated, but I broke up with her because she wanted to keep the baby.

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This is a really, really terrible situation.

Two months ago, my girlfriend was attacked in a park, more than attacked actually.

The unspeakable happened to her. She didn't want to

report it and she went into a full breakdown. She wouldn't speak to the police. She wouldn't go to the

hospital. I couldn't force her so I just stayed with her. She was obviously in a very low state since

and I've been with her by her side, to her helping her we went to therapy and she

knows that I'm there for her she has a history of depression and I've been really worried last week

we found out that she was pregnant I was abroad for two months before the attack on work and came

back early to care for her so the baby baby definitely is not mine. She is 100% sure it's the

attackers. So we had a discussion. She is a devout Catholic and we initially decided on a

termination. But after speaking to her mother, she has decided to keep the baby saying that it isn't the baby's fault. I flat out told her

that I would not help raise the baby of a guy who attacked her like this. She cried and she

begged me not to leave. I told her she is the one making the choice. Either she keeps the baby

and I leave or she terminates the baby and I stay. I would not let

this go. She didn't want either of those things to happen so I told her we were done. I feel horrible.

Was I the jerk? So if we fast forward into the future, there is an update. I'll post the update first

since there have been some changes since last time.

Then I'll respond to general points made from the last thread and a ton of the messages I received.

Yesterday I received a call for my girlfriend. She was crying and she begged me to listen to her.

I told her that I still care for her and that I'll obviously listen to what she has to say.

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