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Tracy, welcome to the program.

Hi, thank you for taking my call, Dr. Warham.

You're welcome. What's happening?

So I had to follow out something I could help somebody with.

And if you're following out with a friendship, and what was the falling out about?

So we've been good friends. We have three kids who are all the same ages. They're little.

And she came to town to stay with me for business and she ended up.

She didn't share that her kids were sick at home. She got violently ill.

And then she still went to go meet with her client, which was a bit disappointing. She was wearing a mask, but she was very ill.

So then cut to later, my grandma starts actively dying that same day. She stayed around and ended up going back to her house.

And then what ended up happening was we were planning to go on this big trip together to Lake Arrowhead.

So it was a big trip for the weekend.

And my grandma's funeral ended up getting scheduled the same weekend.

So I texted her and I said, I'm so sorry. It looks like the funeral is going to be that weekend.

Can I can we postpone to a different weekend? And she said, no, if we cancel, we're out all the money.

And I said, like, to try to look into it and she wrote back this long, you know, well, I really want to go on this trip and we only planned it at this place because you said you could come.

And, you know, it's not my place, but who scheduled the funeral without asking everybody.

And I was pretty offended.

And but my grandma was still actively dying. I would really at her bedside all day. So I just didn't really want to deal with it.

And then it just it was kind of a schedule, a funeral when she wasn't dead yet.

She was on hospice and she was actively dying. And so my mom was working with the place that it ended up being.

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