brought to you by the every dollar app start budgeting for free today my brother-in-law

recently died in his sleep and my sister had passed away in 2019 when their children met with

the insurance company they found out my oldest son and I were named as beneficiaries.

I think this may have been an oversight because the children were minors when they got the policy.

They still will get an IRA, a house, a car, etc.

The kids are pressuring me to sign over their money.

It would help to hear from someone not close to the situation.

What should I do?

Well, I think you need to make a decision of, was this an oversight?

If it was left to you to take care of them when they were minors and they're no longer

minors and he had just hadn't been diligent with his estate plan and fixed his beneficiaries,

then you are saying you accidentally did get money that was intended for them.

If that's the case, I would give it to them.

If, on the other hand, if we, that's what it sounds like, but if there's another

scenario that's like, okay, he wanted to leave us some money and he used the policy

to do that, and he very clearly intended to do that, and they just feel like they're

entitled to it just because it was their dad and mom, but they, but dad and mom had a very,

very clear intent to leave it to us, then they're just up a creek.

You're not entitled to anything because you're kin.

That's not, it's not their money.

But if you truly do believe what you said that you think it's an

oversight then on a moral basis i'd give it to them or option three

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