I'm wondering how to navigate through an unsure season with my boyfriend, as he's recently made the decision to put everything into his music career.

This happens whether you're 22. This happens when you've been married to some regular old middle manager who suddenly gets to be the vice president.

And so the question I always want to ask is,

What's going on?

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trying to figure out how to do that right i'm a dad of two young kids i'm trying to run a business

i'm trying to be a good team member like i'm in the middle of all that too and so it's not like

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So just to sum it up, I'm wondering how to navigate through an unsure season with my boyfriend

as he's recently made the decision to put everything all into his music career.

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So basically, my boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16 and 17.

We went to the same high school, grew up in the same town, and then started at the same university, only an hour from our hometown. Although we're still

young, we've always been goal oriented towards marriage and starting a family. Because of the

unstable environment I grew up in, I've always been in more of a hurry than he was, but we talked

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