I’ve Had a Crush on my Husband's Friend for 5 Years

The Dr. John Delony Show

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🗓️ 15 September 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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0:00.0	How do I get over a crush that I have had on my husband's best friend for five years?
0:11.0	Rutt, Ruh, Ruh.
0:13.0	When you say crush, what does that mean?
0:14.7	You fantasize about this guy, you accidentally brush up against his arm.
0:18.4	When you're sleeping with your husband, do you imagine him?
0:20.5	Like, give me the level of crush? What does that mean?
0:29.2	What up? What up? This is John. Welcome to the jungle. We got fun of games right here,
0:34.6	talking about your mental and emotional health and your relationships and your marriages and your kids whatever you got going on in your life i'm here to talk
0:41.7	to you go to john deloney dot com slash ask and fill out the form we get the hundreds of requests
0:47.5	from all over the planet every day love for you to write in about what's going on in your life
0:52.0	and we will get you on the show.
0:55.2	It's got to Los Cruces, New Mexico. I know where Los Cruces is. I got some wild adventures
0:59.9	in Los Cruces before. Talk to Ashley. Hey, Ashley, what's up?
1:04.7	Hi, Dr. John. How are you? I'm doing great. How are you?
1:08.5	I'm doing good. Super excited to be talking to you, and also extremely
1:13.0	nervous. I'm glad you reached out. What's up? So my question is, how do I get over a crush
1:21.6	that I have had on my husband's best friend for five years? Neither him nor my husband. Neither one of them know that I have these
1:30.9	feelings and I just, I really want them to just go away, but I feel like there's something underneath
1:36.1	it that keeps it there. So that's my question today. Oh man. I've got lots of thoughts.
1:45.1	Tell me more about it.
1:51.3	Tell me what it is about this guy that, like, let me back up.
1:52.6	When you say crush, what does that mean?
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