Hi everybody. Thanks again for tuning into the women's dating and confidence podcast. Today I'm going to be

answering a listener question. And if you didn't already know, you can send me your questions

about dating or confidence through Instagram, Facebook, or email, and I will create a podcast

for you answering your question. So she wrote, I just started dating a guy I'm very attracted to.

We met online, so he obviously thinks I'm

attractive, and I've been told the same, but he doesn't compliment me. I don't need the validation,

but it would be nice to hear that I look nice. He's always affectionate towards me. Calls,

texts, seems to really like me. But no compliments. We've only been dating four weeks and

spend a bit of time together. I'm just confused. Most men I've dated always complimented me. Some too

much. Is this something I need to worry about? Is this a red flag? Thank you so much for your question.

I really appreciate it. It gives me so much inspiration for this

podcast, but I also think it applies to so many women because I just recently hosted a workshop

for women all about dating, and a woman at that workshop brought up the same topic. She said that

she constantly compliments her boyfriend, and he never tells her that

she's beautiful or that her outfit is nice. It doesn't matter what she does and she was really

confused about it as well. So first of all, to answer your question about whether this is a red flag

or something you need to worry about, definitely not. I think guys can just be kind of

oblivious sometimes and they need you to communicate these things to them so that they know what's

important to you and they can decide if they want to do that or not. But I would say probably

in this situation, he isn't even thinking about

that. He doesn't even have any idea how important it is to you. So what I would recommend is,

first of all, if you haven't heard about the five love languages, I'm going to link an article

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