Hey, Hey, Waffle Gang. I do hope you are well. My name is Mark and today we're checking

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story, which is titled My 33 female, Boyfriend 32 Male of 4.5

years seems to not care about my pleasure when intimate. My boyfriend 32 male and I 33 female

have been together for 4 and a half years. He's been my only intimate partner and he was

the person I thought I was going to marry. But things have been rocky lately. We're trying to

work through those issues, but there is one issue that I don't know if I can work through and that

has to do with intimacy. Ever since we were first intimate, he does not seem to prioritize my pleasure

during the act.

For the first little while, it was a lot of exploration and thought that maybe he needed time

to discover what works for me. But I noticed that there were no attempts being made. I then decided

to have a conversation with him about it, when he seemed to understand and agree that it was

important that we

both enjoyed the act. The next time the situation presented itself, he did not attempt again.

I had the conversation about it with him again and he apologized and said he would try again.

This continued to happen and I continued to stay and wait.

In the four and a half years we were together, we have been intimate for four years and I can count on one hand the times he has tried but given up.

I first thought it was me and that I was the problem.

So I went to therapy and spoke to a therapist about this.

She asked me if I've been able to in the past and I told her I

have. She asked me if I have communicated with my partner about what works for me and what does

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