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Let's crack on with today's first story, which comes from Clear Card 92, and says,

Am I the asshole for rejected my husband's offer to join him for a family funeral,

after he explicitly uninvited me?

I tried to keep this brief.

Husband 28 male and I 30 female have been together for a decade.

Have a house together, no kids, we both work, we have a couple of dogs, the works. We met in college. I was local. He was from out of state. All of his family

therefore lives out of state. When he graduated, we stayed in my state, as he didn't want to

move back to his home state. This past week his grandfather passed away. He was over 100 years old, so while the family

has been bracing for his passing for a number of years, the actual passing was quite sudden and unexpected.

I, of course, was there for him when he found out, helped him and his family in arranging grandpa's

funeral services, etc. They decided on an intimate viewing with burial

right after. I respect that completely. I asked my husband how he's getting back home in such a

short period of time. I offered to drive. We priced check against bus tickets, train tickets,

planes, etc. He says he'd like to go alone because he's concerned about finances. And besides,

our dog takes daily medications and I'd need to stay home to manage this. I'd already let my bosses

know I may need to take time off and I'd already arranged with a neighbor to be on call for

medicating our dog. But okay, I understand his point. We can't afford to both get tickets out that's fine just

let me know how I can support you you know the funeral is planned for Wednesday

originally says he needs to be there Tuesday so he will work on flying out Monday

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