My Boyfriend Is Not Good in Bed (Should I Tell Him?)

The Dr. John Delony Show

Ramsey Network

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships

4.8 • 5.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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0:00.0	Big news.
0:02.6	New dates for money and marriage getaway just dropped for Valentine's Day weekend 2026.
0:08.8	Get tickets at Ramsey Solutions.com slash events to get away with your spouse in Nashville, Tennessee.
0:20.7	How do I talk to my boyfriend about being unhappy with our sex life?
0:27.2	We've got a really great relationship.
0:29.1	Everything is perfect, but I have a hard time getting across the finish line.
0:34.1	So let's take orgasm off the table.
0:36.7	My bigger concern for you is, what in the world is going on?
0:46.5	This is John with the Dr. John Deloney's show. Take in your calls about your mental and emotional
0:51.7	health and your relationships.
0:58.0	The last two plus decades now, man, for a long time.
1:02.0	Now I've been sitting with hurting people trying to figure out what's the next right move.
1:07.0	When the wheels fall off, you're just trying to figure out how do I have this next conversation?
1:30.1	How do I have this next challenging call out? How do I get about changing my relationships? Whatever you got going on in your life? How do I sit down and help my hurting kids? Whatever it is, I'll sit here with you and we'll figure out what's the next right move. John Deloney.com slash ask if you want to be on the show. We get calls and letters from all over the planet and I'd love to have you on the show john deloney dot com slash ask let's go out to orlando florida and talk to
1:36.2	delaney hey delaney what's up hi dr john how are you I'm great how are. Good. So my main question is how do I talk to my boyfriend about being unhappy with our sex life?
1:54.1	So we've got a really great relationship.
1:57.1	Everything is perfect.
1:58.5	We're about to get engaged.
2:00.6	But I have a hard time getting
2:02.7	across the finish line, if you will. And I don't think he knows. And I don't know how to talk to him
2:10.4	about it without hurting him and making him feel insecure. So would it be fair if I told you that your relationship is not great and wonderful and perfect
2:23.2	except for this?
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