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slash Ramsey. Today's question comes from Kathy in Arizona. I've been a health care worker for many years and became close to a patient while she was in the hospital.

That was 23 years ago and we've stayed friends since. She's now

92 years old and a widow. She has a son and a daughter who don't live by currently, or don't

live nearby. She has been estranged from her daughter, estranged from her daughter for almost

15 years. Her son calls periodically to check in on her. She recently revised her will to remove her daughter

and put me second in line if something were to happen to her son first. Should I be worried that

her daughter could come after me legally? She has not told either of her children about the will

details. I want to help her, but I feel like I'm getting in the middle of family drama.

What are your thoughts?

You feel like you're getting in the middle of family drama because you are in the middle of

family drama.

That's why it feels that.

Yes.

So no, legally, no, she can't come after you.

If there's a will in place. You haven't done anything wrong, no, she can't come after you. If there's a will in place.

You haven't done anything wrong. Yeah, she can't. You haven't done anything wrong. But I would encourage her to talk to her kids about this. Yeah, I would go further than that. Would you say no to it?

I would say, I don't want this unless you have told both of your children,

which would involve her talking to her daughter that she hadn't talked to in 15 years,

so she's not going to do it. But I, but just because, let me just tell you, I would tell you

there's a hundred percent chance that you're going to be involved in drama. Did you do anything

legally or ethically or morally wrong? No, none of those things. But that doesn't mean you're not

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