You know, Today we're going to be talking about moving. Moving comes with a lot of stress and often a lot of fights.

So we want to talk about best practices for your marriage when you are

moving. And hey, if you are new to the show, we drop a new episode every Tuesday. And on the last Tuesday

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podcast app you're listening so that you can join us every single week. So Dr. Kim, what are the main

fights couples have or stressors when it comes to moving? Moving is stressful. Just in itself

is stressful. There's a lot to do. So it seems like couples, when I work with them,

they're moving and we talk about it. They don't remember all the things

they thought over because they're little things, but you get irritable. Then there's sometimes

a money situation, you know, maybe you need movers and so they end up costing more than you

thought, or maybe something's happened. Maybe you're buying a house and closing. You end up finding,

we have to pay more than we thought we were going to pay

when you're talking about moving you figure out about what are we going to move what are we

going to get rid of packing which is I hate I hate I would you know if we ever move again

I don't care what it costs I am hiring somebody to do the packing and unpacking I hate

that part of it and so and and I think that just takes longer

than most people expect it. And you get tired and you get stressed out. And it's like, and who are you

face to face with? Your spouse. So who do you bark at? Your spouse? Yeah, definitely. I think it's also,

most people don't move every year, right? So it's not something that most of us are really skilled

at either. And you kind of forget all the details and all the things to do. And, you know,

some people are natural-born good organizers or good packers, like good at sticking all those

things in a box just so. But a lot of us aren't. And then it's like, well, you forget because

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