Most Conversations Go On Longer Than We Want Them To
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Warner Bros. Discovery
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🗓️ 5 April 2021
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Learn about why most conversations go on for a lot longer than we want them to; a genetic mutation that makes some people resilient to the cold; and how homing pigeons pass down their knowledge.
Most conversations go on for twice as long as we want them to by Kelsey Donk
- When people want conversations to end. (2021). EurekAlert! https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2021-03/potn-wpw022421.php
- Mastroianni, A. M., Gilbert, D. T., Cooney, G., & Wilson, T. D. (2021). Do conversations end when people want them to? Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 118(10), e2011809118. https://doi.org/10.1073/pnas.2011809118
Around 20% of people have a genetic mutation that makes them resilient to the cold by Grant Currin
- People with this muscle protein gene variant tolerate the cold better. (2021). EurekAlert! https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2021-02/cp-pwt021121.php
- Wyckelsma, V. L., Venckunas, T., Houweling, P. J., Schlittler, M., Lauschke, V. M., Tiong, C. F., Wood, H. D., Ivarsson, N., Paulauskas, H., Eimantas, N., Andersson, D. C., North, K. N., Brazaitis, M., & Westerblad, H. (2021). Loss of α-actinin-3 during human evolution provides superior cold resilience and muscle heat generation. The American Journal of Human Genetics, 108(3), 446–457. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ajhg.2021.01.013
- Impervious to cold? A gene helps people to ward off the chills. (2021). Nature, 590(7847), 531–531. https://doi.org/10.1038/d41586-021-00433-0
Move Over, Ancient Sages: Homing Pigeons Pass Down Knowledge Too by Hayley Otman
- Sasaki, T., & Biro, D. (2017). Cumulative culture can emerge from collective intelligence in animal groups. Nature Communications, 8(1). https://doi.org/10.1038/ncomms15049
- Homing pigeons share our ability to build knowledge across generations | University of Oxford. (2017, April 17). Ox.ac.uk. https://www.ox.ac.uk/news/2017-04-18-homing-pigeons-share-our-ability-build-knowledge-across-generations#
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, you're about to get smarter in just a few minutes with Curiosity Daily from |
| 0:04.8 | Curiosity.com. I'm Cody Gough. And I'm Ashley Hamer. Today you learn about why most |
| 0:09.4 | conversations go on a lot longer than we want them to, a genetic mutation that makes some people |
| 0:14.7 | resilient to the cold, and how homing pigeons pass down their knowledge. |
| 0:20.0 | Let's satisfy some curiosity. |
| 0:25.3 | All right, if you've got social anxiety, you may want to brace yourself for this next story. |
| 0:28.6 | Researchers recently found that most conversations |
| 0:32.0 | go on for twice as long as we want them to. |
| 0:35.0 | And we have no idea when the other person wants the conversation to end. |
| 0:39.0 | Before you start spiraling out about how many times you've held people hostage in conversation, let's look at the research. |
| 0:47.0 | To get a sense of how conversations work, a team of psychology researchers recruited 932 people to take part in two experiments. |
| 0:56.4 | In the first, participants thought back on a recent conversation they had. |
| 1:00.4 | In the second, the researchers paired people up with strangers. |
| 1:04.0 | The pairs talked about whatever they wanted for as long as they wanted. |
| 1:08.0 | Then, after both experiments, the participants had to think back to their conversation |
| 1:12.8 | and indicate whether there was a point they had wanted it to end, |
| 1:16.4 | and then predict what their conversation partner would say to the same question. |
| 1:21.5 | In both of the experiments, the conversations almost never ended when both people wanted them to. |
| 1:27.0 | The conversations also didn't end when one person wanted them to. |
| 1:32.0 | In fact, when the researchers calculated the difference between when people wanted the conversation to end and when it actually ended, |
| 1:39.0 | the average time was about half the duration of the total conversation. |
| 1:44.0 | That is, the conversation went on for twice as long as anyone wanted it to. |
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