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The Anxious Achiever

Morra x Fixable: How to feel less awkward, stay strong during a job search, and build your team's confidence

The Anxious Achiever

Morra Aarons-Mele

Business, Careers, Management, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.7599 Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2025

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

We’ve been taught that confidence means the absence of anxiety, but what if that’s completely wrong? In this special crossover episode, I joined Anne and Frances from Fixable to talk about the hidden link between anxiety and confidence. They answer listener questions about feeling awkward at work, leading with trust, and staying confident during rejection. We also delve into why anxiety is not a flaw but a sign of growth, how to handle “awkward office moments” with grace, and how to turn setbacks into superpowers. Get ready to see your anxiety as proof that you care, not proof that you can’t. In this Episode, You Will Learn 00:00 Why anxiety and confidence are deeply connected. 04:00 How do you rebuild in-person confidence after remote work? 06:30 Why awkwardness at the office is completely normal. 09:00 The “Snack Week” experiment to practice connection and confidence. 13:00 Leadership lessons for helping your team build confidence. 15:00 Why weekend praise texts might backfire. 18:00 The right way to give feedback and celebrate failure. 21:00 How to stay confident through job rejection. 25:00 Why you already have confidence inside you. 30:00 How do you turn perfectionism into progress? 32:00 One Post-it exercise to stay grounded and confident every day. Resources + Links Listen to Anne & Frances’ Fixable Podcast HERE Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever Watch the podcast on YouTube  Find more resources on our website morraam.com Follow Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam Follow Anne Morriss: @annemorriss Follow Frances Frei: @francesxfrei

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0:00.0

I'm so, so happy to be here.

0:03.5

You all, I feel like, are my constant companions in my ears on my LinkedIn.

0:09.0

It's great to be here.

0:10.9

We are super fans of yours and so excited to share you with our audience.

0:15.6

So here's how today is going to work.

0:17.2

We are going to spend a little bit of time getting to know you so that all of our

0:22.4

fixers out there, as we call our audience, can also love you the way we love you. And then the three of us

0:29.5

are going to answer some questions about confidence that our audience has sent in. This is part of our

0:35.3

series on confidence that we are doing this season.

0:41.9

Awesome. Let's do it. What are the big things that people get wrong about anxiety?

0:50.2

That it's bad. That it's something that we can cure and never feel again. That's ridiculous. And we wouldn't even want that. But then I think on the other spectrum that if you're in a really

0:55.8

tough spot with anxiety that you're never going to feel better because that's not true either.

1:00.5

You know, there are so many great proven treatments for anxiety because it is so, so common.

1:06.9

Some of the best advice I got about anxiety was from Dr. Alice Boys and she said, you know, can we treat anxiety a little more lightly?

1:15.5

Right? We feel anxious about feeling anxious. We feel stressed about feeling stressed. Can we treat it more lightly and bring it into our lives as even a source of wisdom. That's how I feel about it.

1:29.2

There is still a lot of stigma around this stuff. Anxiety is weirdly stigmatized because I think we

1:36.2

conflate it with weakness in a way. Like if I'm anxious, I'm not going to do a good job. I'm not going to be

1:42.8

trustworthy. That is absolutely not true.

1:48.2

We're having this conversation as part of a series on confidence. How do you think about the

1:52.1

relationship between anxiety and confidence? You can't have confidence without anxiety.

1:58.2

You can't be great at anything without anxiety because anxiety happens

2:04.5

also when we're pushing our growth edge and it keeps us literally on our toes, you know? And so I think

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