More Destructive: His Porn Or Her Reaction? #663

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Dr Corey and Pam Allan

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🗓️ 14 February 2024

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Today let's explore the impact of reactions and perceptions in relationships, specifically in the context of discovering pornography usage.

There are lots of complexities with the aspects of honesty, trustworthiness, fear, and shame. Like how others perceive us, the importance of acknowledging others, the reactions to the discovery of pornography usage, motivations for lying, managing fear and shame, breaking the cycle of fear and reaction, recognizing the scripts we carry forward, and seeking professional help or self-reflection. To name a few.

Listen to hear us explore them all.

Takeaways

Reactions and perceptions play a significant role in relationships.
Honesty and trustworthiness are crucial in addressing the discovery of pornography usage.
Fear and shame can fuel destructive reactions.
Breaking the cycle of fear and reaction requires self-reflection and seeking professional help.
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Sexual polarity plays a large role in the energy found between husband and wife - particularly the sexual energy.

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0:00.0	So let's start with this.
0:04.0	It's interesting because just as an example of how, I think we are aware of how other people are responding to us and we have motivations of what
0:16.6	we choose to do, how we conduct ourselves, how we carry ourselves, what we wear, that all... We as human beings have that absolutely maybe other maybe other species do as well
0:27.4	too well I didn't know if you meant just we as you and me well in example it's going to be you and I but there is an element of
0:36.0	life where I am aware of how are people reacting to me? Okay. Absolutely right. Okay.
0:43.0	Absolutely right.
0:44.0	Okay.
0:45.0	Because it's interesting because in the last month or less, I've gotten rid of all facial hair.
0:51.0	Which I've had for, man, decades, a goatee typically, would be a normal thing.
1:00.3	Other than the few times I would just go clean and then grow it right back.
1:04.8	But one of my curiosities and maybe even attachments was who's going to say
1:09.9	something? Who would even wow Corrie yourie, you look different. What's going on, right?
1:14.0	Yeah.
1:15.0	And very, very few actually do.
1:17.0	Hmm.
1:18.0	So maybe they're not thinking about you as much as you think they do?
1:22.0	That is absolutely true. Is that your do? That is absolutely true.
1:24.0	That is absolutely true.
1:25.0	We're not as important to other people as sometimes we think we are.
1:28.7	But also the flip side of this I think is important of awareness of those around us and acknowledging that speaks to them.
1:37.4	It does true. Right because there's all these subtleties that go on and play out
1:41.5	which is what we do here at Sexi Emerge
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