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Just talking about some of those barriers, some of them we're in more control of, I'd say,

particularly around letting go of the picture of

how we thought we'd be letting go of that should you know we should do this we should do this but the

finances is such a complex barrier isn't and I know you've got a whole chapter in the book about

that what are some of the things if someone is listening and they thinking, I cannot think of a way that I am going to be

able to live my life, pay for childcare, if we're not in a dual income family, what can someone

do? I think the first thing to say on this is at the end of the day, sometimes it's not physically

possible. And unfortunately,

that is the economic climate that we're in. And anyone who is in that situation should not

feel that they are failing because they're not able to provide that for their children.

Secondly, there are things you can do. But again, you have to be able to repaint that picture of what

you thought your life would look like and what it should look like and what it may look

like in the future. So for me, I needed to essentially double my income. If I wanted to stay in

the house, I'm in a tiny little house, but it's got two bedrooms, one for me and one for my son.

And if I wanted to stay here, then I needed to double my income because I had to cover all

of the bills and everything on my own.

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