So Abby, there you are. Drink it alone. It's trying to break up the monotony of the day.

Go out to have a drink by yourself at, uh, Bubba Gump Shrimp Company all by yourself.

I do love some seafood. What you do. And a guy approaches you, right? And you turn

around and you immediately brand him as a nerd. Dweeb. Dweeb. Is that the same thing?

Nerd and Dweeb. Dweeb, a little nerdy. Same. No. I don't know. Okay.

I feel like Dweeb has more of a negative connotation for his nerds more endearing and sweet.

Okay. Do you give the nerd a chance? All I'm saying is give nerds a chance.

How tall is he? He's a six to an half nerd. I'll give him a chance. Five, nine.

That's the Dweeb territory. When they drop, when they drop below five, ten, they become a Dweeb.

I do think that Dweeb has everything to do with height. I think you're right.

So there's one podcaster yesterday. Isabel Brown saying, look, you guys are messing things up.

If you are not giving nerds a chance, she's got herself a great husband who she knows is a nerd.

You go for the nerd. It honestly blows my mind how we have this entire trope in American literature and movies and TV shows

about the nerdy girl who then becomes super hot and amazing. But we don't say that for men.

So what are you looking for when it comes to a nerd?

I want you to hear me loud and clear when I say this to listen up.

If he owns a lightsaber, green flag. If he has purchased a wand from the wizarding world of Harry Potter,

greenest possible flag. If he has an unhealthy obsession with a soak a tonneau, you better run to the altar.

Because those little underestimated nerd boys grow up to be men who see what's in here.

Boom. These are all things that would not have made me run to the altar. They would have made me run away.

To I married a nerd and 100% can recommend. Is that right?

I've dated my fair share of nerds and a couple of jocks and not to slam anybody.

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