⚡️MINISODE: The Hard Work of Marriage - ft. My Husband
Women's Wellness ON AIR WITH ELLA
Ella Lucas-Averett
5 • 699 Ratings
🗓️ 1 November 2024
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
A bite-sized boost to your day!
Ella and her hubby spill the truth about the effort required to make a relationship great. They talk about conflict, being on the 'same side,' and keeping it fresh in a long term relationship.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to this on-air with Ella minisode. A little bite-sized boost to your day. Always quick, |
| 0:05.8 | always thought-provoking, and always under 10 minutes. Let's go. |
| 0:11.7 | Honest to God, I think parenthood and marriagehood are the two hardest jobs that we have in life. |
| 0:17.3 | I really, really do. And when you have a child, you can't help it. You're going to love |
| 0:22.4 | that child to the end of time no matter what they do. Marriage is the hardest job that I want to be |
| 0:28.1 | good at. But marriage requires a choice, I think, every single day. If anyone gets the impression |
| 0:34.8 | that you can just find the person who is your person and then like, |
| 0:38.0 | you're done, you're done. That was easy. Like that is such a joke. I think that you make a choice |
| 0:43.7 | every single day as to whether you're going to be good at it that day. Well, I think it's kind of like |
| 0:47.8 | working out, right? You know, there are some people who look incredible. You mean mean you would fall in that category. No, you work very hard at it. |
| 0:55.6 | And people look at you and say, wow, I wish I looked like that. |
| 0:59.1 | It must be so easy for you. |
| 1:00.4 | But marriage is the same way is you actually do have to get up and have to go to the gym or run or do those things. |
| 1:05.5 | It does actually require an effort. |
| 1:07.8 | And it takes, you have to build that muscle. |
| 1:09.8 | And it's easy enough to say it. |
| 1:11.4 | And everybody kind of goes, yeah, yeah, yeah, I know that. But it's hard. It is really hard because |
| 1:15.8 | all you need to do is to not, is to not practice that for a week or so. And guess what? You're |
| 1:22.0 | right back to where you were again. And so it takes that constant process to be thinking, okay, how do I do this? And you both have to be involved. You can't just be one of you. |
| 1:31.0 | That is so true. And I don't know if I knew that. Like I knew that intellectually, but I don't think I had, well, I know I didn't. I had never practiced that until we were able to like discover that truth together. Be like, oh, wait, okay, there's never a point where |
| 1:44.5 | it's just easy and you're like, oh, do you love me so much? Thanks for reading my mind. Or you love |
| 1:48.7 | me so much. I don't have to work at this anymore. I love you so much. It's just easy and |
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