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The Art of Charm

Minisode Monday #55 | Communication Between the Lines

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2017

⏱️ 3 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to Minisode Monday, where we kick off the week with something quick and actionable -- to make you more magnetic and effective -- that you can implement right away. "You think you're ordering a coffee, but you're also sending non-verbal signals out the entire time. What do those signals communicate?" -Jordan Harbinger In this Minisode Monday, we talk about the messages we're sending and receiving between the lines when we communicate both verbally and non-verbally -- and how we can hone the way we send and receive for greater clarity. Let's get to it! The Cheat Sheet for Communication Between the Lines: Intentionally expressed or not, there's always something going on between the lines when it comes to communication -- whether it's verbal or non-verbal. This between-the-lines message may not only be unintentional -- its interpretation may be faulty on the receiving end because non-verbal communication isn't necessarily universal. How can we get a grip on the signals we send -- and ensure we're not misinterpreting the signals we're receiving? To calibrate the way we send and receive signals, we should take note of how -- for instance -- someone using quickspeech or dismissive body language makes us feel. Then, think about situations in which we might be giving off similar signals to others. We can constantly learn from these interactions to better control the signals we're sending out -- and taking in -- between the lines. To learn more about social dynamics and productivity hacks, take the Art of Charm Challenge by clicking here, or text CHARMED to 33444. Also be sure to check out our Social Capital Intensive here! Let us know about how you put today's Minisode Monday into practice! Tweet with @TheArtofCharm in your response or write to Jordan directly: [email protected] (he actually reads everything)! To truly thrive in all areas of your life, you can't ignore the importance of good health. Try Organifi Green Juice for 20% off using code "charm" when checking out at organifi.com! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Listen to The Art of Charm, Geffen Playhouse Unscripted, and hundreds of your favorite podcasts with the free PodcastOne app (on iOS and Android) here! Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/minisode-monday-55-communication-between-the-lines/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey Jordan Harbanger here, welcome to MiniSode Monday.

0:03.3

I'm happy to be here with you kicking off the week with something quick and actionable

0:06.7

that you can implement right away.

0:08.4

It'll make you more magnetic and effective.

0:10.6

Now today, this is maybe a little bit of something that some of you have heard before but

0:15.0

haven't thought about for a while.

0:16.6

If you've been following AOC for a while, you know we're all about reading between the

0:21.0

lines, especially in verbal and nonverbal communication.

0:24.3

What you might not know is that there's always something between the lines when you're communicating,

0:29.2

even if you're not aware of it at all.

0:31.7

You're always using body language, positive or negative, consciously or not.

0:35.9

You're making plenty of confident eye contact or you're not.

0:39.0

Or it's too much eye contact and comes across a bit creepy or intense.

0:43.0

You're smiling warmly or not at all.

0:45.1

Or it seems manufactured and you've got the grill of a serial killer.

0:48.5

Are you fidgeting?

0:49.5

Is it your upper body or your lower body?

0:51.2

What does that say?

0:52.2

What is it not saying?

0:53.7

You think you're ordering a coffee but you're also sending nonverbal signals out the entire

0:57.5

time.

0:58.5

What do those signals communicate?

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