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Women's Wellness ON AIR WITH ELLA

⚡️MINI-SODE: Are you hustling for your self-worth?

Women's Wellness ON AIR WITH ELLA

Ella Lucas-Averett

Education, Health & Fitness, Fitness, Self-improvement, Alternative Health

5699 Ratings

🗓️ 23 August 2024

⏱️ 5 minutes

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Summary

A bite-sized boost to your day!

"While engaging in behaviors seeking love and worth, I didn't know that I was hustling for my worth, but I knew I wanted to be seen so bad, I wanted to be valued so bad, I wanted to feel enough so badly." - Shanta Jackson

Ella talks with Shanta, The Homegirl Therapist about how to STOP SEEKING VALIDATION from others.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to this on-air with Ella minisode, a little bite-sized boost to your day.

0:04.4

Always quick, always thought-provoking, and always under 10 minutes.

0:08.3

Let's go.

0:11.2

First off, I don't have to be perfect.

0:13.9

Perfection is this myth.

0:15.6

It's like that does not exist, and I had to unlearn that, that it's okay to make mistakes actually you're going to

0:24.4

so get comfortable with the fact that life is going to happen you're going to be challenged

0:29.2

you're going to make mistakes I had to unlearn that the things that I wanted from other people

0:36.6

it is not their responsibility to give it to me.

0:40.7

Like, I walked around wanting people to validate me, tell me how amazing I am, how beautiful

0:46.4

I am, and I wasn't even doing it to myself. So how can I give someone else that responsibility

0:51.6

and I'm not doing it for me? I'm going to do something really creepy.

0:55.2

I'm going to read you back to you, okay?

0:58.5

Okay, go ahead.

0:59.1

Let's go.

0:59.6

Because I dove into your blog.

1:00.9

Yes, I did.

1:01.8

And this is what you said.

1:02.9

You said, while engaging in behavior, seeking love and worth, I didn't know at the time

1:07.5

that I was hustling for my worth, but I knew I wanted to be seen so bad.

1:12.8

I wanted to be valued so bad.

1:15.7

I wanted to feel enough so badly.

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