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ManTalks Podcast

Mini-Episode: What Women Desire From Men Before Sex

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Education, Mental Health, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.8 • 591 Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2020

⏱️ 12 minutes

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Summary

This week I talk about what women desire from a man in intimacy. I often get this question from men, “what do women actually desire”. It’s often framed from the perspective of, I’d like to have more sex with my partner and I’m not sure how to engage them.  I give you one specific practice for men. Men, this episode is mostly for you. Women, listen along.  Check out our Facebook Page or the Men's community.Subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter    Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks Community Editing & Mixing by: Aaron The Tech See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome. I'm Connor Beaton, and on this midweek mini episode, we're going to talk about what women

0:06.8

desire from a man in intimacy. Now, obviously, there's many things that I could probably dive into

0:14.1

and talk about on this podcast episode, but I'm going to focus in on one specific thing. I'm going to give

0:20.1

you one specific practice.

0:21.9

And guys, you know, this is mainly for you, women. You can obviously listen along. And if you agree,

0:28.9

great, share it with your man. But guys, this is generally for you. So one of the, one of the biggest

0:34.8

questions that I get from a lot of men at our men's weekends is what do women actually desire? And this is usually framed from a different perspective,

0:43.7

which is, I'd like to have more sex with my partner. Now, this isn't always the, the masculine

0:50.1

or the male partner asking this question, but a lot of men often ask this question and say,

0:56.3

you know, I'd like to have more sexual connection with my partner. And I'm not too sure how to

1:02.3

engage her and bring her into that place. So let's just talk about this first and foremost.

1:09.2

Usually the very, the very first question that I'll ask a man

1:13.6

after he said that is, how present are you with your partner? How present are you? When you're

1:20.5

around her, are you lost in thoughts? Are you scrolling endlessly through Reddit or Facebook or

1:26.9

Instagram? Are you distracted by what Reddit or Facebook or Instagram?

1:31.2

Are you distracted by what's happening at work?

1:35.5

The arguments that you've gotten into with the boss, the to-do list that you have for tomorrow, are you ruminating about whether or not you should initiate intimacy, whether

1:40.2

she'll reject you, whether you'll last long enough or stay hard enough or perform well

1:46.0

enough. What's going on within your mind? Because that's a very clear indicator. The feminine within

1:55.3

your partner is going to be deeply drawn into your presence. And, you know, I see this time after time

2:04.7

after time when we do workshops, when Vienna and I will do workshops or or retreat,

2:09.8

anything that's co-ed. And I have the men get up and do an exercise that gets them into their body

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