Welcome, guys and gals. The Man Talk Show. I'm Connor Beaton, and today we are going to talk about the

communication differences between the masculine and the feminine. And I share with you some of the most

important pieces. So whether you're a guy, whether you're a girl, doesn't matter, you are going to

learn something in this space about how men and women communicate differently. This actually came out of a conversation I was having

with a client the other day because he was a little upset and was communicating to me. He said,

you know, I just don't understand it. It's like every single time that I sit down to focus in on

something. It's like the moment that I have become so deeply ingrained and focused in

on what I'm working on, that seems to be when my wife needs my attention. And all of a sudden,

it's like she pops out of nowhere and she's like asking me all these different questions and

she's trying to get me to pay attention to her. And she's asking me about the kids and and the garbage. You need to be ticking it out and the task list. And it's like, I don't understand.

Like can't she see that I'm focusing? Can't she think I'm trying to focus? And I said, well,

that's because first and foremost, the biggest thing that we need to know, the biggest, you know,

difference in communication and awareness,

is that men and women have different types of awareness and how we focus is oftentimes

different. So guys that are in their masculine have something called single point focus.

And what single point focus means is that when we start to do something, when we are,

because we're very task-based, when we start to do something, most of our attention goes

into that one specific thing.

And we don't like having a lot of distractions.

You know, we usually have our routine and our method.

We have like a methodology that we'll get into with the right music

and the right lighting and the, you know, the special like infrared glasses on and all that

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