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Hello friends and welcome to the mini-eddit from Edit Your Life.

In these snack-sized mini-episodes, I answer your questions about everything from self-care

to parenting, to relationships, to home, and more.

Think of me like that friend you text or call when you need a quick piece of compassionate

and candid advice.

Send me your questions.

Friends, we have officially entered what for many

is a complicated time of year, the holiday season. You know the drill. It's a time when we want to be

grateful, joyful, and pure of heart, and it can be a time of overwhelm, aggravation, and or

deep sadness. And that's normal. Humans are complex mammals.

We each bring an array of cards to the table. And then when you multiply those cards times

other people's cards, friction is inevitable somewhere. That said, one of my goals as an adult

is to reduce holiday friction and the only arena in which I can exercise any control as it relates to my own experience is letting go of the shoulds.

Why? Because when we do things out of obligation, guilt, resentment, or any number of other reasons, other than actually wanting to do the thing for pure or values

aligned reasons, discontent is imminent. Before I go further, I want to address some nuance around

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