Welcome to the multi-family zone, where business meets family. We explore what the entrepreneur

life looks like from the family perspective. Now, here are your hosts, Julia and Gino Barbaro.

Hey, everyone, this is Julia Barbaro, host of the Multifamily Zone podcast. I am here with a co-founder

of Jake and Gino, my husband and co-host, Gino Barbaro.

Hi, Julia. How you doing? Hey, Gino, I'm doing good. What are we talking about today?

Well, you know, it's funny because when we were talking about what was going to be the topic,

somehow it was going on where a lot of judging was going around, especially online in the media, judging. And that's what I kind of

want to talk about. What about if I don't want to talk about that? I guess we're stuck.

Actually, hold on, time out. We're talking about the judging. And then you came and said,

hey, let's talk about judging. So the reason why judging to me is really important, it's because I've been doing a lot of work on mindset.

I'm doing a lot of work on neuroscience of the brain.

I'm trying to figure out why people do certain things.

And then, you know, through this whole pandemic, I've been online.

And every time I'm online, it's so toxic.

Everyone's judging everyone else.

We don't even know what a person should be a situation is.

And from a fixed mindset and a growth mindset, when you're being judgmental, a fixed mindset tends to be judgmental.

It's not open.

It's not empathetic. You're not thinking about the other

side. And I'll give you a quick example of how judgment can really work against you. I read this,

I think, in Stephen Covey's book, there's a story about a man. He was on a train. He had a bunch of

kids with him. I think actually he had six kids with him on the train.

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