Mercy Sex In Marriage #658
Sexy Marriage Radio
Dr Corey and Pam Allan
4.8 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 10 January 2024
⏱️ 34 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the concept of mercy sex in a marriage. What are the characteristics of mercy sex and the impact it has on both the lower desire and higher desire spouses?
We also discuss the pressure to have sex and how it affects the dynamics of a relationship. As well as a discussion on how to move from mercy sex to freely chosen sex, where both spouses are actively participating and enjoying the experience.
Takeaways
Mercy sex is characterized by a lack of initiation, a distaste for sex, a desire to get it over with quickly, and a lack of presence and connection during the act.
The lower desire spouse may feel pressure and guilt when it comes to sex, while the higher desire spouse may accept mercy sex as a way to ease their own insecurities.
Both spouses need to confront their own issues and communicate openly about their desires and boundaries in order to move from mercy sex to freely chosen sex.
Facing the pressure to have sex in a marriage is a normal part of committed relationships, and both partners need to accept and navigate this pressure in a healthy way.
On the Xtended Version ...
Join us in a thought experiment. We all strive for great sex in marriage, or at least many people do. But could great sex actually be a hinderance to good sex in marriage?
Listen to hear us explore this idea.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the show. |
| 0:04.0 | I'm Dr. Corrie Allen. |
| 0:06.0 | Well yeah, you know, sometimes it seems like you know as we kind of get going for each |
| 0:10.6 | time we're getting ready to record. I just got to welcome you, |
| 0:13.6 | babe. Just to say, it's so good to see you here on the show. |
| 0:19.2 | It's good for all of us to be here listening and talking. |
| 0:23.0 | Well I'm Dr. Corey Allen and that's my wife Pam where we're having straightforward |
| 0:27.0 | honest conversations to help cultivate the space between you and your spouse and we want to |
| 0:32.0 | talk about all aspects of that space between us, which |
| 0:36.2 | we're going to kind of do it in a real particular way on both ends at the spectrum today, |
| 0:40.0 | so that should be fun to do. |
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