Mercedes & The Devaluing Angry Narcissist - Domestic Violence, Narcissistic Abuse, Emotional Abuse, IPV

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 1 August 2022

⏱️ 106 minutes

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Summary

Brandon talks with Mercedes about her toxic marriage to a controlling manipulative narcissist. It's a story of competency, self-worth, financial abuse, stalking, and post-separation abuse. It took Mercedes a while to realize that she was living in a prison and that almost every abuse tactic was being used to control her. From gaslighting to brainwashing, nitpicking, name-calling, projection, accusations, blame-shifting, fear, obligation, minimizing, threats, intimidation, physical abuse, and future faking, it was all used until she left and that's when the insidious post-separation abuse began. Plus they discuss personality types, slowing down, feeling, healing, and much more. *** TRIGGER WARNING - We discuss physical abuse in this episode. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To take a free Enneagram Test, click here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Mercedes,
0:06.2	and Mercedes was in a toxic marriage with a controlling manipulative narcissist.
0:11.4	It's a story of competency, self-worth, financial abuse, and stalking.
0:39.7	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:42.7	I am Brandon Chadwick. And with me today, we have Mercedes.
0:47.3	How are you?
0:49.0	I'm doing well, thank you.
0:50.5	How are you?
0:51.4	I'm doing well.
0:53.1	And for people that want to be a guest on our show like Mercedes is today, please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com.
1:01.5	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form, click on that button.
1:05.2	All of these instructions are there.
1:06.9	Please read them.
1:08.7	Send in your notes to Narcissist Apocalypse.g.g.com or just fill out the
1:13.4	submit page button, press the submit button. I have no idea what I just said right there. I screwed
1:18.6	it up somehow, but I'm going to leave it in. And Mercedes sent me some fantastic notes,
1:26.4	and I'm thanking you for that but unfortunately
1:29.5	Mercedes was in an abusive relationship and this story of yours your life escalates
1:37.3	and there's I mean it escalates and escalates and escalates. So a trigger warning for physical abuse, trigger.
1:49.1	Is there other trigger warnings that we have in here that we should know about?
1:53.5	No, I think it's just physical abuse primarily.
1:56.5	So we have trigger warning for physical abuse.
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