There's tips I looked up as a young in in terms of like actual sex that I used in my adult life.

Is it such a fascinating mathematical equation that men feel the pressure to perform in the bedroom?

But then they also are not encouraged to go learn anywhere.

Yeah, men and the regos.

She's.

Thank you for my social clip.

But the real truth is as someone who's been in the sexhead space since 2005,

I've seen a lot of progress in the field in terms of liberation, knowledge, and momentum

of the general population except for when it comes to this area.

In short, while I hate to generalize.

Even though a lot of men I would say no, that they're probably not as good as they want to be,

they find it really difficult to admit that and to look for help.

It was very much an ego thing for him, but he never really put emphasis on

teaching himself what would actually make me orgasm and have a good time.

And when I share with him that a bi-bigger would be really helpful for

literal stimulation while penetration is occurring, he actually wanted the bi-bigger to be

smudged and it's gikmed.

A lot of men just feel that they don't have to do the work.

They just assume that a woman will come educated with what she needs and I don't

necessarily have to do anything I can just receive.

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My name is Sham Boudram and I've been a public facing sex and relationship educator since 2005.

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