The right compliment at the right time is one of the most powerful ways to build attraction.

And the best thing about compliments is that you are in control of them.

They don't involve you waiting around for somebody else to notice you.

Compliments are the opposite.

And in a world where our social muscles have atrophied

through phone addiction and far less people are willing to be brave about approaching someone in real life,

it's nice to have a tool in your belt that enables you to both bridge the gap between you and

another person and build attraction at the same time. In this video, I'm going to talk about

why compliments work, why they are especially powerful when they're used with men, and the five

compliments that thousands of men revealed had the biggest impact on them, the ones they couldn't

forget. So what is it about compliments and how do they relate to attraction?

Let me explain very briefly a formula I have been talking about for over a decade, the attraction

formula. There are four parts to deep and lasting attraction. Chemistry, perceived value,

perceived challenge and connection. Now, I don't have time to go into all of these, but I want to

explain how compliments relate to three of the parts of the attraction formula. The first one,

chemistry. Have you ever noticed that when someone says something nice about you or that you

know someone likes you in some way or thinks highly of you,

when they step into a room from that point forward, they're on your radar in a different way.

It's like they show up more brightly when they walk into a room because they've noticed you.

So when we give a compliment to somebody else, we're putting ourselves on their radar in a way that

makes us shine more brightly to them.

Chemistry can actually arise out of discovering someone thinks something positive about us.

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