Hello everybody, this is Matthew Hussie with Love Life.

Do you know the number one most powerful technique you can use to get any man addicted to you and only you?

Take a second to see if you can figure it out.

Don't worry if you can't guess what it is.

It's simple to use, but it's also easy to overlook,

which is why most women will never use it. I'll tell you what this subtle trick is in just a moment.

But first, let's get to the episode.

We have another question coming in today. This one's a written question from Kathleen.

I volunteer with a guy and I like him and want to get to know him better.

What should I do to take the next step?

So look, I'm just going to give you something to go and say to him.

We're going to keep this nice and simple. You're going to go and say this to him. And it's going to do two things. It's going to get you talking to him and say to him. We're going to keep this nice and simple. You're going to go and say this to him and it's going to do two things. It's going to get you talking to him and actually engaging properly and getting to know him. But it's also going to create a little spark by showing him that you're a little bit attracted in a really easy way. So the way that you're going to do this, first you're going to say, where do you next see him?

Say, we don't, we really don't know each other that well, do we? I feel like we need to know more about each other. And allow that to begin the conversation, okay? But you can say something else after that. You can say, I'm, I'm Kate. Let's start. Why don't we just start again? Me and you we're going to start again. All right. I'm Kate. And then you start that way. So he's going to say, I'm Adam. And then you're

going to have a conversation. But you can say somewhere in that, you can say, you know, it's like,

I keep seeing this cute guy over there and I realize I know nothing about you. And then keep talking. The nice thing about this is, firstly, you're not saying, I keep seeing this hot guy over there, which is a little more forward. You're saying, I keep seeing this cute guy over there. I realize I know nothing about you. Every, I feel like every guy wishes that more women would just say that when they think they're hot.

Because if every woman that thought you were hot just said, I saw you over there, you look cute,

I realize I know nothing about you.

That would at least make us feel like, oh, we can talk to this person.

And they do think that we're attractive.

And this could go somewhere. Okay, that's it. I told you

this in a previous episode, men live for the maybe. They live for the maybe. So this is a little

maybe moment. Okay, so that's all you're going to do. We don't know each other very well, do we?

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