Welcome to Love Life, I'm Matthew Hussie. Now do you ever feel like you're stuck in a rut?

We all do from time to time. The problem is just going through the motions,

cuts off our ability to grow and increase our happiness in life.

Now what would happen if you actually began living each and every day with purpose?

Let me tell you, it is possible to transform your life from ordinary to extraordinary

and it doesn't have to take months or years but just a matter of days.

Stick with me till the end of the show and I'll tell you exactly how to do it.

We have a caller on the line today, Janay, are you there?

Yes, hi.

Hi, how are you?

I'm good, how are you?

I'm fantastic, I'm excited about your question.

So my question is how direct men, how direct do men like women to be?

Well, firstly, men are praying secretly that women will be slightly more direct

because it would make life a whole lot easier for us.

We spend so many of our evenings going out and looking across the room

and wondering whether someone is interested in us.

And we also know that we're expected to do something.

We know that conditioning says it's our job to go and take that risk.

But we'd love if you made that risk a little easier for us.

It's not that we want you to suddenly shoulder all of the risk.

It's not that we want you to suddenly begin chasing us.

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